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female
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36-40,
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writes:I've recently got back in touch with the guy I dated when I was in school and he seems interested again, but even though he's the only guy I ever truly loved, something is holding me back from getting back with him. Has anyone else ever got back with an ex from years ago and had it work out or do you have any other advice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Minelisse  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 I did... no it did not work out. As Frank said, if what broke you up is still there, there is a big possibility you will break up again.
Other than that... trying never hurt anyone!
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (10 June 2008):
 I worked on myself and got back my ex-fiance after 7 years apart...I had changed, but our dynamic was still the same. I am a firm believer that unless what broke you up the first time has been completely eliminated, you will break up again.
For example, a person that was an addict that gets sober may have a chance of building a lost relationship, but the odds are against it, even in the best of circumstances.
It really depends on what caused the break up in the first place.
Sorry this could not be more encouraging.
-Frank B Kermit
www.frankadviceforwomen.com
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