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writes:I was in a very good relationship with a wonderful woman. She broke up with me by email, when just a few days before she told me she was the happiest she has ever been before in her life and it was due to me being in her life. In the email she told me to never contact her again. I am asking women if there has ever been a time when she breaks up with a man that she ever realized that what she had was a good thing? and if she ever went back to a relationship? There was a bit of begging and pleading on my part for a few days, I know thats not a very good thing to do, but, did I do too much damage to the feelings that I know were there for both of us! I was married for 10yrs, and I was with this woman for a while, and we hit it off from the beginning. We both expressed to ourselves how much we mean to each other, showed it, and lived it. I am leaving her alone now, and just wondering if there is a time when I should try to contact her again. I honestly think this is a big mistake, We were happy, never fought, and if there ever was any kind of problem, it was taken care of immediately.. We have been apart for almost a month now. Does she even think about me? Will she ever reconsider having me back?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): yes, that happened yo me in september this past year. I/we were perfect for each other, for no reason at all known to me she did the the exect same thing you said. I never understood it but come to find out , she had another b/f whom she said she met the night of the last time we were together.she said she loved me and wanted to marry me and then *poof* like a fairy tell she was gone. I tried like you have to hang on but had no luck and no reason why she left.
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reader, 48years  +, writes (24 January 2009):
 Most women want back in...most women want to see some sort of act of romantic devotion to show you care as much as she does.
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reader, Ask JenniHearts +, writes (24 January 2009):
 "never know what you got till its gone" its a fase that many people go through. i don't know her side of the story so i cant very well promise you she'll be back. but i can tell you to give it a few days, maybe a week. but she definatly needs the time. don't be stalkerish but maybe you can send her flowersshowing here how you feel.
hope this helps
jenni hearts
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