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writes:*OP's own title*HiyaI'm a 16 year-old girl, my boyfriend is 18 and we've been dating for a long while. Recently I started giving him handjobs... But after he cums he stays hard. Is this normal?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you all so much :) I am very much reassured now :)
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reader, Myau  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 I used to stay hard too. I had a rather large swx drive though and still do. I also used to maintain a hard on most of the night when my partner stayed over
It has never caused me any problems
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reader, pinkgoblin15  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Yup takes my husband a few minutes for it to go away
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): When I was 18 I could keep it up for hours. As I got older this was no longer the case. I think younger men just have tons of hormones flowing through their bodies, allowing them to stay hard for lengthy periods of time. So don't worry about it. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for that, we're both of European descent so I don't think that's the problem. It does take quite a few minutes but I didn't realise it took time to go down. Thanks for that :)
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (11 April 2010):
 Well how long after are we talking? It can take a few minutes for an erection to subside after orgasm, which is not abnormal.
If this is a really long period of time, or if he experiences prolonged erections at other times, may I suggest (if he is a black african) having himself checked for 'sickle cell anemia'.
Off the top of my head without doing a refresher read up, this condition affects many people of African descent. Basically, it is a gentic condition (hence it being confined to certain races) where red blood cells that are normally spherical/ round in shape collapse in making a crescent/ sickle type shape (inhibiting the heamoglobin molecules ability to pick up oxygen - hence the anemia aspect) which can then have trouble passing freely through blood vessels like rounded cells do.
Sometimes, these sickled cells can get caught in a blood vessel, block other cells from passing by too, and lead to complications such as priapism (prolonged erction) because the blood simply can not drain back away from the penis.
I don't believe (if mem serves me) that it is curable, but there are supplemantary treatments available for complications such as erections that wont go away. If you think this is a possibility it is impoertant he seek medical advice and have himself checked for this so as to be equipped to manage any complications.
I know this sounds an extreme, and hopefully it is no where near the bullseye, ... but I felt it worth mentioning as a possibilty since you are in South Africa.
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