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writes: Hi there, bit of advise from you guys out there. How can I tell if a guy is really into me. I have a male friend who I spend alot of time with, we prob see each other 2 - 3 times a week. We always talk on the phone at least once, twice a day and text each other. Occasionally he will unexpectedly suprise me with a call at work doesnt really say much but still calls me. When we are on our own he seems a bit uncomfortable around me, he knows i have feelings for him but he is still hurting after a relationship break up last year, its as though he wants to get close but at the same time doesnt want to hurt me. At times he will sit there and I can feel him looking at me (sort of gazing) which makes me uncomfortable cause I want more. When we are out in a group of my friends he appears uncomfortable and wont leave me side and if i go anywhere he worries where I have gone. I cant tell if he really likes me and wont admit his true feelings. We are pretty much like a couple without the intimacy. Im confused!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): hi im the anonymous writer below...... The last answer is spot on hell my life would be easier and more eventful if all women made the move..... I like to think the shy quiet type are usually the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): Hi, sometimes women should be the first one to make a move and in your case, I think you should do it. Ask him out on a date maybe just an activity where you can laugh and cut up but be alone from your normal group of friends...he will get the idea especially if you touch his arm a few times while out and laugh at him and look into his eyes. Guys need encouragment to go to the next level. Sounds like he is into you...good luck with it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): Hi there I can confirm that I am the person who posted this question. Just wanted to say thank you to anon male and LISAG for you encouraging and positive advice. I will def follow it. Thank you x
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reader, LISAG +, writes (3 November 2006):
 I would say he's pretty into you. Give him time and remember the best loves come from relationships which start as friendships. Men who gaze at one woman a lot do really like them. Be patient and let him move it as his pace I'd say. Sometimes men find it hard to convey their feelings too. Just relax and be a good friend to him and in time he will figure out his anxieties and things Im sure will develop between you later. Let him make the first moves though. Let us know how it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2006): well im 22/male, its sounds oh so familiar its all nerves i have been in bad relationships, and it knocks all the self confidence out of you..... Trouble is from my own experience i kept my distance from women for a year till i lost all confidence and wouldnt make a move on a women even when it was obvious....... But i picked up the courage to make a move and it resored my confidence, The best thing to do is wait until he's ready from your text it looks like he likes you. BUT sometimes if you leave it too long and nothing happens you can grow too dependant on each others friendship and hold each other back if nothing happens between the pair of you.
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