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Grown children still making mistakes

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Question - (12 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 May 2009)
A female age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Hi, my children are very stubborn and it’s very difficult to make them change their mind when they are up to something. How can I teach them other way?

I always pay the price for their mistakes, because ,they never want to follow my advice.

I don't know ,how did I make it so bad. But now ,they are all grown ,and the mistakes never stops them to make some more. I'm tired now,what can I do to change that?

And why does some kids listen more and others do not listen at all?

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (12 May 2009):

Why do you always pay the price?

If it's their mistake then it's their problem.

Leave them alone and let them deal with it. If they are all grown then you should be out having fun again rather than chasing them round.

Good Luck!! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009):

You have to let go! They have to make thier own mistakes as much as it kills you! They are adults and need to make their own decisions!

I know how you feel! I do! But all we can do is pray that they survive!

Good Luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009):

You should try telling them at the end of the week you'll reward them if they don't lose 7 points. Give them 7 points for week, take away one when ever they're disrespectful. 1 point per day. Reward them with candy or take them somewhere. It'll work. Trust me.

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