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writes: Basically i was dating this guy for 10 months and became so emotionally attached to him that he eventually got fed up of me and dumped me, i now am dating my new boyfriend and he is lovely but i still have feelings for my previous boyfriend who no-longer loves me and i dont feel that i love my new boyfriend. Will i ever get over this and how? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThnak you i realise i shud let go of my ex now and maybe be single for a while
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2006): Yes, in time you will get over your ex. Don't know how long its been since you and he broke up, but if only a short time you probably shouldn't be dating anyone else at the moment. The new bf sounds like a "rebound" and not fair to date him on that basis.
Not fair to yourself, either, because you need time to grieve and to see what you can learn from being involved with your ex - clearly, from what you said, you allowed yourself to get too emotionally attached to him, and he didn't feel the same.
Just let your ex be part of your past history now - because he IS - and think about the new guy and whether you want to continue with him right now.
Good luck!
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