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writes: Hi there. I need some advice.I have been going out with my boyfriend for four months now. I have really fallen for him but the problem is that I hardly ever see him because he is very busy with work etc... I put up with it because I really like him. Last night I was with a good guy friend of mine and was feeling really low about the whole situation. I ended up getting very drunk and ended up sleeping with him. I wouldn't have done it had I been sober.I really care about my boyfriend and feel really bad. I'm scared to tell him because I dont want to lose him but at the same time I feel guilty. It also showed me that obviously something in this relationship is wrong if I had to do this but im really confused and need your advice thank you...Sarah
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2005): Well, my close friend had the same problem. She had the whole sob story happening, not like yours tho. I know you're sincere, but she just made me sick when he was telling me. Just tell him the upfront truth, he forgave her. Like John said, it'll be better when its over with. Not healthy 2 hold stuff like that in
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2005): hi sarathe only thing i can say is that u need to tell him. i know this b/c i have just been put on the other end of your situation, but my girlfriend wait ummm.. about 5 months to actually tell me the truth. At first she tried to tell me but didnt really tell me the whole thing. i tried to deal with it but i hard a bad gut feeling the whole time. Pretty much trying to hide what happened or forget about it will not work and will only cause more pain in the long run. U might as well get it out there now b4 it feels like alot of time is wasted. your relationship is alot shorter than mine was(3yrs), so just keep in mind that it could b alot harder and who knows he might forgive u. I wasnt able to forgive my girlfriend unfortunatly. So just go ahead and tell him and be fully honest and get the pain out of the way. JOHN
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