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writes:I need some help with something. I've recently started talking to a girl on the internet, maybe a month ago (i am a girl, yes im bi) im totally head over heels for her and shes so cool and nice and i love her already shes just my dream girlfriend. We're planning on meeting up next month and im looking forward to it but im really nervous, and i know she is too. Im just wondering has anyone any advice on how to keep calm and maybe make her feel less nervous.? Maybe some hints on stuff we could do to take the edge off.? Like activities.? Any advice is welcome, thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): thanks you guys, that helps a lot. and angelDlite, that makes sense, thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): I met my current boyfriend online. The first thing we did after he got to the hotel was walk a trail together, it was very nice and calming and it gave us something to do if conversation was slow. We got more comfortable after the walk and went out to eat, it really helped to be able to be doing something while first getting comfortable.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 calm down. saying you love her already is a bit much and is making you put her on a pedestal so its not surprising you feel nervous about meeting her. i think doing an activity that you both enjoy will be a good thing to do coz its less likely that conversation will dry up then. i've never met anyone online but i have met men and then kept in touch on the phone for a couple of weeks sometimes before meeting up for the first date and i just give them a cuddle as soon as i see them again, it puts them (and me!) at easex
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