Girlfriend of 10 months lies to me

A male age 36-40, *ayawi writes:

Ok i'm having this problem with my relationship... My girlfriend, of 10 months, lies to me. She lies to me about where she goes, especially at night time. She tells me that she's going to sleep but goes out. I know this because when I get off from work and im driving home, her house is on the same neighborhood and I dont see her car. That really ticks me off and when I confront her she makes excuses about someone, like her aunt, borrowing her car and gets mad at me for not trusting her. She also hides her phone and saves people's names under different ones, I think she's cheating on me. I confronted her about all these things and she tells me that she loves me and is not cheating on me, and that I should trust her. Should I be trusting and let all these things go? or should I ask her for the truth and if she doesnt give it, I get out?

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