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Girl keeps looking my way. How can I strike up a conversation?

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Question - (11 June 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 June 2011)
A female Singapore age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm a lesbian and I look like a normal girl and only my friends know I'm lesbian.

so recently there is this girl who is new to my school and she is gorgeous. the first time when we made eyes contact. the look she gave me was intense and special like no one have ever looked at me like that. I went crazy for her but too shy to come up and introduce myself to her. so until now, we still haven't talked. however I always caught her looking at me all the time while I was hanging out with my friends, also with that intense look. I guess she is bisexual or lesbian because the way she dressed was kinda normal (not too girly) and the way she acted is a lil... weird??

luckily, 1 of my friends (let call her J) was in the same class as her. then I knew she is 17 yrs old. J said the girl is the most beautiful one in class but she is quiet and never talks to anyone except her younger brother (in the same school). J said how lucky I am to have her staring at me all the time because she didn't look at anyone!

then yesterday, 2 of my friends came up and introduced themselves to the girl, my friends knew I was shy then they introduced me to her "this is [my name], she is cute." then she smiled and laughed and nodded. her smile was lovely but I was too shy to look at her back.

I decided to come up and talk to her next week.

how not to be shy and make a good impression on her?

especially how can I make her laugh?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011):

The first step to a good relationship is friendship and understanding. You should be friends with her and spend a lot of time with her. You should go out with her. Make her comfortable and if you think she likes you more than a friend, go ahead and tell her how you feel.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2011):

That's so cute! I think she could be interested in you but you can never know for sure unless you go up and talk to her. Just try to be yourself, get to know her and a good way to do that is to become her friend

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