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writes: me and my girlfriend hav broken up.it s been a few weeks now.it ended because i kissed another girl.i ve been desperately trying to get her back but to no avail.we still talk every day and let each other know of our movements.ireally want to be with her and before the break we were so close and she did love me, so i guess im clinging onto the hope that somewhere deep down she loves me still too.im trying to be cool, but i cant help being the crazy ex nd obviously this isnt going to win anyone back.i guess im just wondering if anyone has any advice on this situation or even any experience with similar situations.i really want my girl back.thanks alot x Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2006): You can't have loved her too much if you can just go and cheat on her like that. she deserves better.
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (12 August 2006):
 If you've got *ANY* chance of getting her back (and it might take some serious work on your side) you're gonna have to stop playing it cool and tell her how you really feel.
The fact that she's speaking to you at all after what happened is a good sign, so maybe there's a chance. Be honest, apologise, tell her the truth about how you feel and give her the chance to be angry for what you did and maybe you'll get her back.
Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2006): The trust and faith in another that is necessary for a loving and strong relationship has been breacehed.
It is clear that this kissing another girl is a great offense to her. That she is not calling you and told you it is over seems very firm.
She is thinking that she knows she deserves someone faithful and reliable and knows she can find him...that you blew your one chance.
If it is still no communication or contact...it is very apparent that you need to let this go.
Learn from this lesson.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2006): you wont like this but you wanted answers...... .....i really really love my bf but if he ever cheated on me that'd be it, and i think him constantly calling me would just confuse me and make it harder. you lost her trust and thats so important ina relationship. you need to talk to her and ask her if theres any hope, if she says no you have to accept that and decide yourself if you want her just as a friend or not all, maybe being friends is too hard.hopefully you'l have learned something from this and next time you have someone you love who loves you back you'l appreciate it more.i know its a rotten answer----sorry!
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