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writes:on a friend she's a girl I been kinds moving apart coz she said she dont like me, I spent over £30 on a gift n put it in her locker because I do not see her often but its been 2 weeks and she hasnt even said thanks in anyway! She knows how much effort I put in why? Its ripping me apart!!! Plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwe were extremely close for 3years, great friends n I've given her things before but since I told her my feelings its taken her time to get back to normal. Well why are we no longer friends? Why is it my fault for liking her? Why am I suffering just coz I treated her like a princess on several occasions n just coz she found out she decides to reject me politely but than avoid me. Its not as easy to forget bout someone as it is to say.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): don't take it personally but i think what she's trying to say is she's not interested. she might be worried if she said something she might lead you on. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 June 2008): I agree with lotus mama, I think this is her way of saying that she's just not really interested. I'm sorry honey, but there's so many girls out there. I understand you spent a lot on your gift but it's time to move on. There's a girl out there for you, and when you find her, you won't even look back at this girl you like now. Good luck :]
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reader, lotus mama808  +, writes (9 June 2008):
 This is her way of telling you she isnt intrested in you. I'M SORRY. I hate to be the barrer of terrible news. What can you do? Move on. Find a better girl (because there are so many of us in this great big world!) She isnt worth your time, effort and money. She is rude, and you deserve better than that. A REAL lady will be appreciative, loving and not afraid to communicate. You are young, and this experience was meant to teach you a good lesson, to prepare you for your REAL love life. Dont take it too personally, I know how bad you feel about it, I've been there, as well as most people. It hurts. I'm here to tell you, there is something better for you. Good luck:)
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