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writes:I've been friens with my 3 rd childs father for 26 years. We both have children forprevious relationships. Our child is now 6.5 and he will not commit or arrange to live togehter or introduce me to friends and family.Its getting colder and colder as we have not been itimate for over a year. He has been there for me and my children as I had been having prolems with my 17 year old. But I am just really going off j=him and now I find it hard to call him. He is picking up on it and is not calling me either.A couple of weeks ago I spoke to him and he mentioned staying the night - that just made me feel sick - does he really think after all this having sex with me is going to make me feel better!He is not with us at Xmas or birthdays its been really miserable. At 45 I want to get married and be happy. I can believe I have wasted so much time.I have been out and about meeting people. I am attracted to someone who knows him but he is being careful. He does not know I am attracted to him yet and senses it. (He's my hairdresser and he have so much in common). I love his mum and his family. they know my partner so its all awkward.I am tempted to confide in his mother as I am finding her easy to talk to and se likes me as she is impressed with me as a teacher and a single mother of 3.Any advice welcome.thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2009): If you feel comfortable talking to her, then talk to her. It might help you.
I think you need to do what will make you happy, and try not to worry so much about what other people might think about the situation. Even if it is a bit awkward with these people knowing your partner. Go with what makes you happy, and what feels right for you. x
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