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writes:Hey guys, I was wondering if you could help me out? I am in a sport that's co-ed and multi-age. Basically I am on a team with boys/girls, and anyone from thirteen to eighteen. I have a dilemma though and it's been going on for quite some time. Recently myself (14 years old) and an eighteen year old boy on my team have kind of taken a liking for each other. I've noticed him watching me a lot, and he smiles at me. I really like him, but the problem is the age difference. I feel like if I give in to him, he'll want things from me that I'm not ready for. I haven't even gotten to high school yet and here he's going to college soon. I can't break this forming relationship between us! I would really appreciate help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2010): When I was 14 I dated an 18 year old and he was a pig sex-obssesed to be honest and we split up after a few weeks. Now I'm 15 and with a 20 year old(bearing in mind I'm 16 in 2 months andd havent even slept with him yet) The thing is your not the legal age for another two years so you have to think are you sure you wont to get in a realtionship like this? If so great It's your choice but you need to make sure that he wont pressure you into anything consdering you are 4 years younger than him
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2010): If he's a good gue ha will wait for some time but u know u have to be ready sometime. I once dated a 19 years old boy (then i was 13, now i'm 14) and he waited for me to be ready, or atleast i said he would but after few weeks he cheated on me. But now i've been seeing a guy that's 24 ( i know that's a LOT of diffrence) and he waited for almost two months 'til i was ready =] u'll have to get to know him better and i promise that u'll see what kind of guy he is. 'til then, just play along =]
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