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*cottish12343
writes:I recently discovered that the guy i've been with for two and a half years has sent a girl flowers and a teddy to her work office about 6 months into our relationship but he's never done anything like that for me, i found out he had been online chatting to girls so investigated and surely enough it was true but i had never noticed the part about the gifts until recently i confronted him and he said nothing happened she came on to him but he said no he was with me but when i confronted the girl she said he didn't have a girlfriend at the time and she never knew it was him who sent her the gifts. I know he doesn't do it now as he doesn't use the computer anymore but i'm just not sure what to do should i leave it alone and just get on with it as there are more important things in life or should i confront him again about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): Dear Poster
We are here for you; keep us posted.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Best wishes and try to keep SMILING
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reader, scottish12343 +, writes (30 September 2008):
scottish12343 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the advice x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2008): Dear Poster
Personally I would have left it and just let it be
BUT
if this is going to "eat" at you all the time you will have to talk to him about it; try not to confront him, but rather talk in a very loving manner; try to get answers to get closure so you can forget about it;
Best wishes and keep SMILING.
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