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writes:Hey all,I am 21 years old, and I am in college but I have a very huge problem I think I like my biology teacher more than teacher I know it is so wrong, I do admit it. however, I can not take him out of my mind, he always in my head he is so smart, tall, and so handsome. if I am not mistaken he is in his 40.Here is the thing I do ask him a lot of question after the class ( people please don't get me wrong I really ask question on a related subject) because there are some concepts that I just don't seem to understand or maybe I just can not concentrate because he is teaching it I don't know! Recently, I started to realize that he sometimes looks at me, and he hold his look for a long time. Well, he does looks at other students when he is teaching them but with me I feel different, that I sometimes just look at him and pretend that I write notes because it makes a little bit uncomfortable. another thing, he sometimes makes fun of me meaning if I asked a question in the class, and at the end of the class he would say it funny like " Professor how to do this", it is hard to explain but just imagine kids in the kindergarten sometime make fun of their friends so does he too. i don't what does it mean, another thing, is that during the lectures he is being very serious and gets annoyed by the question but at the end of the class he is completely different person very kind i don't know maybe just to me.another example, He would always pay attention to what i do in class lets say 'i would look into the book to highlight things that he points out, he would suddenly stop and say you are not going to find it in the book, or lets say on the break he would starts a conversation with me if I went to see a tutor, and would tell me that he himself not a biologist. or every time after the class i would stay and ask question and i am about to leave he would suddenly stop and ask me question about if took previous classes that I took or something like than then he would start telling me about when he stated teaching student did not do well.I know it might seem like hello girl he is trying to help you to success in class, I would agree but I feel that there is something more. to illustrate, he told me that if i have questions about my test i should come to him when he has another class science is lab, and he would help me. well, i came and sat next to him and he explained me everything so well, however as i sat next to him i suddenly felt that his leg is touching my seat at first i ignored it because i thought maybe a person did not realize what he was doing. then suddnely i felt his leg touching mine so hard that innocently moved away and he is like oh i am sorry. I felt it that it was done on purpose.Anyways, people please help and tell me what to do maybe i am imaging it all, or maybe there is something there. another thing in few weeks my class will be over soon I am so upset that I wont see him no more.Please tell me how to get this man out of my head.Thank you all Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionan update, two days ago I had a final, and afterward I asked him for my garde and he smailed and say I dont know it I have to check it. then he said it to everyone!
as i got my score back i did pretty bad, and then i came to him and told him as a joke so professor is that means i will see you in the next semester, and he is like NO I DONT WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN, AND SINCE HE TOLD ME THAT I TOLD HIM IT IS OK I DONT WANT TO SEE EITHER. THEN HE IS LIKE UNLESS YOU WANT TO COME AND VISIT ME!
my problem now is that this story is over, and I miss him so much.
then later after he checked the grades i saw him in the parking lot in order to say thank you to him since he was patient with me and he said that it was pleasure to have me in his class.
WHAT TO DO? I WILL NEVER SEE HIM AGAIN AND I LIKE HIM SO MUCH HE JUST AN IDEAL MAN HE HAS EVERYTHING THAT I LIKE, EVEN THOUGH.
ANOTHER THING, TO A FEMALE WHO ANSWERED ME BACK THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Is there a way to forget him? ppl would tell me go out dont think about, that it this class is over.
they might be right but I am afraid that I will never find a guy like him :( he has everything that i like in a man, tall, handsome, WAY TO SMART, and so charming!!
ppl please tell me how to get over him
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): you might not need to get him out of your head. try and hold a conversation with him about something non-work related and see if he reciprocates. im with my old teacher now, we always used to just talk work but he always offered to help me with school work like yours. after he stopped teaching me we kept in contact and a year later, we are engaged to be married. it does work out, just dont be phased by the fact hes a teacher, u may think u like him more than u actually do!!
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