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For 4 years I've been trying to get him to notice me!

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Question - (8 September 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2011)
A female United States age 26-29, *exybabe13 writes:

i like this boy in my class for 4 years now and im always tryin to get him to notice me.he shows no interest in me at all .he barley even talks to me. i dont want to tell how i feel right away because that might freak him out . i just want to know how i can atleast get him interested.

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A male reader, Mr. Don T Knowitall Canada +, writes (1 October 2011):

Hi,

there's an expression in business, something to the effect of: a guy knows he's missed a good opportunity after somebody else got to it first. Or something like that. Basically, you have to make him jealous.

you're relatively young to be dressing sexy, but wear something that you look really good in. If you are with another male in the presence of your crush you will know whether he is interested in you. Show him that he may not be able to have you and it will pique his interest. Maybe you're on a friendly date with a decoy and if your crush is interested he will be asking his friends and your friends about you and your relationship status days later.

This is not really fair to your decoy so make sure you don't lead him on. do you have any good male friends who might find it fun to try this experiment? you two could go out and have a great time and then wait and see if you get the desired results. There's nothing worse to a guy then regretting to take a shot at an attractive female, more so when they can see it right before their eyes that they may have waited too long. Look great and get in his face and see if he pays attention.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (8 September 2011):

Honeypie agony auntStop trying so hard. Maybe say hi & smile next time you see him. See how he reacts.

If he isn't interested however, then he ISN'T interested. You can't "make" him interested. Know the saying :" You can drag a horse to eater but you can't make it drink?" It's the same for people and their feelings.

If he isn't, then it is his loss and you need to let the crush go.

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