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writes: Hi, recently I've become friends with my ex-boyfriend and we flirt all the time. We had a long talk the other day about why we split and that we should put everything behind us. And now I'm starting to feel for him again and I think he feels the same way about me, but I don't know what I should do, whether to ask him how he feels, or ask him out again, or flirt for a little while longer till I know for definite about what he's feeling.Maybe someone else has an idea they'd like to suggest to help me out cause I'm stuck! I really feel attracted to him and I don't know what to do. Please help me xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2005): I usually find that people split for a reason. My bet is that the minute you get back together, you'll figure out why you split. Don't do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2005): Maybe consider taking things slowly to see how things will
pan out. Don't get in a rush. I can see that you need to know where you stand. And so I think it might help you if you establish some sort of deadline in your own head after which, if nothing has changed to demonstrate that he does indeed want a more permanent relationship, you should sit down quietly with him one day and talk to him about his feelings and about how he thinks the relationship is going.
Remember, you two had problems before and it broke you up so so think carefully before you go back into something that is plainly not everything you could possibly wish for. If both of you have maturely dealt with that past issue..then give it another go but go slow. It sounds as though you want him as a partner. And if this is the case, I feel it would be right for you to establish what he's feeling-after another few months and if he's not feeling the same way, you will then have the option to move on. I hope everything works out well for both of you. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2005): dont worrie it will all sort itself out in the end just go along with what you FEEL is right....
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