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*aylynn
writes:I am 14 and I love masturbating. Before, I used to not be able to finger myself, but now I can. But I wanted to go deeper, so I used my hairbrush which felt amazing. I'm wondering if I can fist myself while being a virgin? Also, how can I pleasure myself more? Reply to this Question
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reader, kaylynn +, writes (18 March 2009):
kaylynn is verified as being by the original poster of the question I was just about to say that, satindesire. Webster's definition of "virgin" is "a person who has not had sexual intercourse." I haven't had sex, therefore I am 100% virgin. I don't plan on losing my virginity until I'm responsable enough to deal with the consequences that go along with sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): Once you get to fisting, you ain't a virgin no more. You might have broken your own virginity with the brush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009): You lose your virginity when you have sex for the first time. You might break your hymen doing this, but so what.
Just make sure you are keeping your nails clean and don't stick anything dirty/sharp in there :( I know it goes without saying but sometimes in the heat of the moment one can get carried away...
Use lube, relax, and don't feel any pressure to anything either way.
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reader, kaylynn +, writes (18 March 2009):
kaylynn is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI use the handle, and it doesn't hurt at all.
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reader, RoxStar +, writes (18 March 2009):
 Its ok that you do that. You have to learn about your sexuality. Im just glad you are not being promiscuous.
Try, using your fingersA(or vibrator) in a rapid motion on your clitoris, that is the little bump at the very top of your vagina ( its in an oval shape correct so you will find it at the very top, outside,not inside) used a shower head.
Explore with lotion, on ur body, learn what feels good, and what doesnt.
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