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First-time sex turning out to be more difficult than expected.

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Question - (8 March 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2010)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't even want to attempt sex anymore because it always ends up being unsuccessful and horribly awkward. I don't know if it's that my hymen is just too thick or if it's because he's not forcing it in hard enough, but literally, it is physically impossible. Don't suggest obvious things, because chances are, I have tried them. I am relaxed, he's super hard and we use lube. It is always extremely painful, which I could deal with if we were actually getting anywere, but he can only ever get the tip of his penis in before it just literally won't go any farther. Help?

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A female reader, franchesca United Kingdom +, writes (8 March 2010):

im a 43 year old female,my first few times were really painfull and not enjoyable at all,dont get too hung up about penetration,enjoy oral and get your boyfriend to use his fingers,i never really had mind blowing sex until i was in my thirties,i had sex for the first time when i was 15.

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