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writes:I am a virgin and i have never gone further than hand jobs with my bf.I really want to give him head but i'm scared that i'll start to and then get grossed out and offend him or something (it ISN'T gross, it's just my first time and i'm nervous)As a guy.. would you mind using a flavored condom for the first time? or maybe having honey smeared over it?Other ideas are welcome please!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2011): I don't think you'll need anything "extra" like flavored condoms. I was worried the first time too, but I think if you love him you'll like what he tastes like.
If you're doing it because you WANT to, I think you'll enjoy it.
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reader, donnakolukisa  +, writes (4 March 2011):
 if it's your first time then you're bound to be wary. in ten years time you will laugh about this trust me, but your first time and you're stressing about it. get relaxed and take things slowly let him teach you what he likes and if you don't feel comfortable then stop and try something else.Its all about learning about each other and taking things at your own pace
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reader, The13th_Floor  +, writes (4 March 2011):
Your man won't mind one bit, believe me.
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reader, Blonde68 +, writes (4 March 2011):
 What is it that makes you think it will be gross? Just imagine that it is one of your favourite lollypops and try and chill... I think you will be fine, and you may just surprise yourself and really enjoy it!!Favoured condoms are ok, but the taste doesn't last long. I tried them out once, and the favour wasn't that nice to be honest, and after a couple of sucks, the favour had gone. Cover it in chocolate or squirty cream, then at least you are getting something nice out of it too.Its totally normal to feel a little nervous, it is the fear of the unknown... but once you have done it a few times I am sure your fears will fade. x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2011): Try to relax and I'm sure he won't mind the flavoured condoms, alternatively you could try using lube, they have a variety of flavours which taste nice :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (4 March 2011):
 Hi well am not a guy but try not to worry it is something that off course you are going to be worried about. Honey however can get quite messy so I think the best idea would be to use a flavoured condom a few times until you get used to it. Belive me he wont mind, at the end of the day he will welcome it as a change from a hand job so go out and buy some flavoured condoms and surprise him. After a few times you will get used to it and get more confident to try it without the condom. Goodluck.
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