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writes:ok so here it goes. im 20 years old and i have just started seeing this guy. this is the first time ive dated. ive never even kissed anyone before. but anyways, this entire week ive been sick to my stomach. i even threw up this morning. every time i even think about spending time alone with him i get extremely nervous. is there any way i can control this? i really need help because we are going out tomorrow. Reply to this Question
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reader, Brunel  +, writes (9 April 2010):
Calm down as Michael Winner says! Be yourself and act as normal, why do you think he may not be nervous himself. You do not have to kiss him or even touch him or let him do anything to you?If you enjoy his company all you need to is tell him you would like to see him again? There is no way of dealing with this other than relaxing.Make sure that where yoiu go is comfortable for you, maybe meet him at a lunchtime so there is no need for kisses. Either way it will come naturally to you! Do not sleep with him for at least 6 months, till you are well, truly certain.
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reader, Stupidcupid1989  +, writes (9 April 2010):
 No need to be nervous. Im a single mother and im 20 and only now im starting to date and i still get abit of nervous. but what iv realised youve just got to be yourself, otherwise why bother. Just enjoy it, your obviously looking forward to the date to be nervous but depending on where our going, dress up show yourself off and have fun. dont show him your nervous. relax, i usualy have a glass of wine for my nerves and that helps me
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