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writes:Yeah..so there is this guy..whom im totally in love with..and he..? I don't know..! I mean..Im confused. He used to love me before..like I came to know this based on the way he used to move on with me..But then he never said it..seeing his behaviour..I proposed him. And then..he accepted. :) It went fine for a month..and one day..all of a sudden he calls me and tells me that "we are better being friends"..and says "We must do this..after we finish our education"..to which I agree..f'course after lots of discussions and promises. And this thing went on for few days..we used to move on like we are friends..! And now..one day..he stops calling me all of a sudden..I don't get his texts ..I dont get his e-mails..nothing at all..! And I call him to know whats' the reason..and he doesnt' answer..I keep on calling him on and on and on..and when he finally answers he says..he doesn't want to be with me anymore..like..he doesnt want to be my friend..even after studies..I keep questioning him over and over..but he says he has DECIDED..Well..one of his brothers has helped him in deciding this..(he told me)..Im totally like WTF..? I cried and cried..begged him..asked him not to do this..but he was firm on his decision..And I couldnt' convince him anymore..but to agree to what he says..and accept to be his friend whatever it maybe(I decided that because ..atleast in that way..I can be close to him)..! Now the thing that confuses me..is..why so many changes..?? Can a person change so much..? I din't know..? Like..I cry everytime I see his pictures..evrytime I see his texts(related to friends) on my phn..But whatelse can I do..except that..? Please Please HELP me out..I need to get over this..I need to know whats' going on his mind..? Is he telling me the truth..? HELP..!
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (17 September 2011):
Just let him go whatever his reasons were for ending the relationship then friendship...
Its hard letting go of an ex especially when he's the one who ended it...but you're still young and have a whole life ahead of you, dont let a boy ruin it. Study more, do some hobbies, hang out with friends, etc.do things to help you get your mind off him.
And in all this, time is the best healer. There was a time i got dumped by my bf. I thought i could never find anyone like him, every other guy seemed inferior to him. But with time and supportive friends i did get over him and found a wonderful man. All the best to you.
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