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I fell for her a second time, but she doesn't want me as a boyfriend...

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Question - (16 February 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 February 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I recently got back in touch with an ex girlfriend from 4 years ago. We split up due to distance really and now she lives closer. I see a lot of her.

Just before Christmas I went around to her house to help her move in. One thing lead to another and we slept together. We spent the week acting like a couple and we slept together twice more.

Then suddenly she phoned me and told me she wasn't ready for another relationship having only split up with a boyfriend a month earlier. So I left it.

Now she always tells me how it's great having me as a friend with out any of the mess of a relationship, but I have totally fallen for her again. What can I do?

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A reader, patti, writes (17 February 2005):

Don't rush her. She is comfortable with being friends with you right now.

Nothing wrong with the way she feels. Give her her space.

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