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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I understand that we are cousins but that means nothing to me. I only played with her when we were little, and i don't remember a lot from back then. A decade and a half later I found a job that required me to move, and she lives in the area so I moved in. we became best friends and my feelings for her keep getting stronger.what can I do?
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (12 January 2011):
 hi
does she even feel the same way? i think it is best to not get involved. save yourself a lot of problems in the future. imagine you too get really involved and then it will be harder to split up, which you would have to if you ever wanted to have children (first cousin pregnancies have a high risk of a baby with defects) also how would your family feel about this?
seriously, get out now before you get in deeper, meet new people in the area and get a life, a girlfriend even and you may become less attached to her.
xx
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reader, PatientlyWaiting1 +, writes (12 January 2011):
Is she your blood cousin? Like, your mother or fathers sister or brothers child? I had a cousin come on to me and it completely freaked me out. I had just met him but it did not matter. It would be odd. I suggest you get your own place and stop having feelings for her.
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