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writes:So for the longest time I've fantasized about sharing my wife. The thought of another man pleasuring her makes me crazy. To date I've only e-mailed back and forth and shared pictures with other men. Her and I have discussed it briefly and have even placed ads on CL but never really gone through with anything.For her I think it's a turn on knowing she's desired - how do I take this to the next level? How do get us to the point that we actually do actively pursue another guy to be with her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): Assuming that she's 100% into this idea, your problem is likely going to be finding a guy that's nice, considerate and that she finds sexy. CL is not exactly a quality place to find folks. I suggest looking into which site in your area are active amongst the swinger types and paying to put up a profile. Free sites have too many trolls...Find a guy, talk on the phone (once or twice), meet for a drink and if all goes well find a hotel... keep it a one time thing, NOT at your house, and go from there.If she has fun, maybe she'll let it be an occasional thing.Start with some role playing and dildo play- pretend that the toy is another guy and get her off. See how she reacts during and after the session.Be very considerate of her feelings and do NOT forge ahead because your so turned on... keep thinking with the big head and do not force her to do anything she's not 100% into.
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