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writes:About two months ago my best friend and i got into a huge arguement. when i first met her it was fine, and we had a lot of fun, but after a while she wanted to sneak out at night, and have sex with her boyfriend. i would always come with her to make sure nothing happened and this went on for months. after a while i got used to the habit and began sneaking out as well, my family noticed that i had changed a lot and i wasnt with them as much as i used to be. one day we were talking and something slipped out of my mouth, i had told her that because of her i was changing a lot, and she was the cause of it. she got mad and told me she didnt want to talk to me anymore. i really love her like if she was my sister, thats how close we are. i miss her like crazy, i even said sorry so many times but she doesnt take it. but she keeps asking one of my friends for me. i have no idea what to do about it, should i try saying sorry again, or should i just leave it like it is. i seriously want her back, but i dont know if i should try. can someone help?
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reader, jrns96 +, writes (14 December 2010):
u should definitely not leave it like it is. if u really love her, try to explain what you meant exactly by your statement. it sounds like you meant it more like "my family has started to notice how different i am compared to before i met u". try to get that message across to her. maybe u or another agony aunt can word this better, but hopefulyy u get the gist of what i am saying. hope ive helped :/
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