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writes:My bf's ex has pictures tagged of him and her on FB when they were; it's been 2years..They still talk bc its like a circle of their friends. Why would she still have it up tho even when shes in a new relationship? I know I have him and its memories etc, its just a curious question. Why would he keep the tags on them when I know he has the pics on his comp anyways? I am the type of they are exes I don't need to keep the memories. So yes its me who doesn't see the reason to keep the pix. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2010): Well I first didn't want to be friends bc I knew id see pix of exes...so I said I don't want to be friends for that point. He deleted the obvious and begged me to be on his FB. Yet, he knew I was talking about the tagged albums but still didn't (I never told him to do anything he didn't want to do I just simply stated that was my reason, I didn't want to be on his friends list). It was just a curious question of why she would still have pics of them laying in bed or just plain partying..to me her bf is a d/a for her still having that up there or he just doesn't care about her enough and c. That makes me look like an idiot or am I one for putting up with it?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (7 December 2010):
 I don't see a reason to delete them either. So why not just leave them up, clearly they don't bother no one. Maybe it'd just be too "drama queen" to start taking down pictures, and thats how he feels?
I guess I would change my profile pic if it was with me and an ex, but the reason I still have my e'x pics with me in them too is basically because Im too lazy to bother taking them down, and don't really see a point in taking them down either.
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reader, Teardrop33  +, writes (7 December 2010):
I know how you feel and it would get to me too but at the end of the day it's memories isn't it. Some we keep some we don't but if you feel really strongly about it then speak to him about it.Also reverse the situation if it was you that done it how do you think he would feel. He is with you and you only x
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