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Experimenting, how many guys have done it?

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Question - (6 September 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 13 September 2010)
A age 26-29, * writes:

Hey I have a question, I have the opportunity to sexually experiment with a friend of mine. We are both males, and in the 9th grade. I basically have already made my choice, I think I'm going to do it. But I want some input from you guys. How many of you have experimented, either growing up, or recently. How did you feel? Were you confident, scared? Did you do it more than once? Did you feel guilty? This input would be greatly appreciated! Thanks :)

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A male reader, crazybeast United Kingdom +, writes (13 September 2010):

crazybeast agony aunti personally would say yeah go for it, i experimented when i was about 12/13 with a guy that ended up bein my bf lol so yeah... there isnt really an exstent of things u can do... id start of with a kiss and go on from there... if it feels wrong or akward just stop, it obviously not for you.

in my initial experiment it went as far as a bit of oral and thats how it carried on and then eventually when we got together it went all way but keep it plain and simple, u dont want to over do it if it doesnt feel completly right.

Yours truely... xx Beasty xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2010):

I've experimented and realized I really liked it. I was a little scared at first because I thought I might not like it. I don't feel guilty at all, it fact I am proud because now I know who I am - I am GAY and proud!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2010):

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Im pretty confident about it, I want to see whats its like, find out who i am...i think it can only have a positive outcome...unless caught by my parents lol

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A male reader, Bobito United Kingdom +, writes (8 September 2010):

Bobito agony auntWell, if you both want to try it, just go for it. Does it really matter if other people did it, and how they felt? People and situations are different. The question is: are you looking forward to it? Are you scared? If so, what are you afraid of?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2010):

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I pretty much am going to do, just wanted some opinions on it, now all i gotta do is figure out a place, considering my huge tent outback, lol but um another question, what extent of things did you guys do?

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A male reader, Meee666 United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2010):

Yeah I've experimented. It was great. I didn't feel guilty at all!

But then I'm not exactly straight...

I was pretty nervous at first but soon got used to it.

I hope you have fun :)

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (6 September 2010):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntif you like it and he doesn't you may feel used and rejected. this is the main problem for this kind of situation. its your choice but keep your eye's open and dont expect too much.

i didn't feel guilty, but i felt negative afterwards in a used sort of way

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