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writes:One of my ex's friends told me that my ex never talks about her boyfriend to anyone... even my ex's best friend has said this... her new bf apparently makes no effort to engage with her friend... but weirder still she talks about me a lot :S bringing me up in conversation... they were discussing boys the other day apparently and of me she said "he was always a gentleman" lolWe broke up 3 months ago... she got with her new guy 3 weeks after the spilt... bit weird???
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reader, mrg123 +, writes (17 April 2011):
 Is the real question your asking here are there any feelings left, is there a chance of getting back? If so, its kind of impossible to tell from this. It's more than possible her new fella is a rebound and that's why shes not shouting from the rooftops about it. If she's talking about you alot I can understand why you might be feeling that way but without knowing much more I find it impossible to tell the difference between feelings that would pave the way for a reconciliation and just plain old nostalgia. I would however say that if the reports are to be believed and she is bringing you up thats a more positive sign. Ultimately, my feeling is that what shes doing is a way of processing the experience of the relationship - if that makes sense. If I had to guess id say this didnt end in a particularly clear cut way or for a clear cut reason and thats what lies behind this. Whether that holds out the hope you seem to want is a different question entirely.
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