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writes:Dear Cupid,My ex fiancee recently split from me after almost 5 years and jumped straight into a new sexual relationship with someone i thought was a friend. It hurt but im moving on however they feel the need to play mind games and toy with my emotions knoing how much i care or should i say cared for my ex. I have seen them together and they look happy but i am confused as to why they won't let me go.Do they feel threatened of me as they have been essentially saying that they have split up when i know for sure fact they havn't. I know they are fishing for information or emotional frustration but why and to what purpose. We are all 21 yet i feel like the only one acting like it. Can anyone shred any light on their behaviour ? past experiences or any advice etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): I'm in agreement with ShandyPop on this one. Daft game. He's your EX - part of your PAST life, not your present, so let it go and just cut contact with both of them. Don't go places where you'll run into them, and if they call you, don't talk to them! You could pick up the phone and hang up immediately to make a strong point.
Stand up and refuse to put up with any of their nonsense!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2006): This is a daft game being played by two people you have known and loved in the past therefore it must hurt the most. I think they like the attention that they 'think' they are getting from you. Just ignore them. If they have split up or still together, what does it matter, they are in the past. Ex means just that - gone! Let them play their silly games and just laugh it off. If you don't have to share their space then keep out of their way, then you can't dwell on what they are doing or saying. You will meet someone really nice in the future.
Take care
xx
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