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writes: hi,Me and my girlfriend have been together for just over 17months. We've always been very close and i treat her like an angel. I see her nearly everyday and we're always talking about the future and whats going to happen (which she usually brings up first) i.e. how much we love each other and how we can't imagine our lives without each other. she's the most important thing in my life and i've never loved anybody more....getting to the point, i've just come back from holiday for a week (our relatioship was fine before i went), i called her most evenings and she said how much she was missing me and couldn't wait to see me and can't wait for us to go on holiday together. however when i got back things were fine for a few days but then out of the blue she's said she wants some more time on her own, take a break b/c she is unsure about her feelings but said she still loves me.I asked her if it was the holiday thats made the difference and she said she wouldn't of felt like this if we hadn't had that time apart. Now i'm scared she won't want to get back n i could never be "just friends" i'd be too difficult. what can i do?please help somebody
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reader, Angelicc  +, writes (8 April 2006):
 the best thing is to give her the time she need. problem is with relationship where you spend so much time with a partner, then you go from that to spending no time with them, it makes you realises things about your relationship. like, she may love you but may not be in love with you or she may not missed as much as she thro she would or the love she feels may be more of obsession kinda love so she may need the time to be her own personal or it could a another of one million difference reason.
but i think you should give her the break, take the time to figure some things out for yourself. like do you want to be in this relationship, you sure you love her, all the million things you could think of
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reader, Jadzia1127  +, writes (6 April 2006):
 There is really only one thing you can do, tell her if she needs time you will give her that time. It might break your heart, she might not come back, but if you truelly treat her like an angel you will give her whatever she asks for.
Considering how long you've been together, and how you claim you treat her, this small breather might be just a moment for her to reflect on the next step with you.
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