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*zabella637
writes:I have wrote a lot here about me and my boyfriend ( ex now)..i still love him to death and basically cry for him everyday...he was moving to Armenia for a while and i broke up with him cuz we were having problems and i knew long distance wasnt going to help..we have been broken up for 2 months now and he has not made any contact with me and i havent with him.. last week was my birthday and his family called and said happy birthday but he didnt..he has a facebook type account so i messaged him and said that its pretty sad how he doesnt say happy birthday since ive been a rock for him for 2 years and he basically cussed me out for having that account.( he never wanted me to have it cuz random people would message me) and i got mad wrote bak to him that u cant tell me wat to do cuz u dnt even make the effort to contact me this past 2 months..we havent talked since that but i really miss him and everything in my every day life reminds me of him...what shuld i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 September 2009): Well, First off contacting him is only prolonging your pain, you guys are currently physically broken up but mentally your not.
You need to be able to say, Its over and believe it. You also need to stop all contact with him because it is not helping you to get over him.
Cease all contact, Grieve, cry, wail, shout whatever you have to do, then do something that you like, meet up with friends, go to the cinema whatever get yourself bak out there, you may not be looking for a bf but your living your life.
One trick I found useful was, when my ex came into my head Id say " I will think about you in five minutes" and it worked, that way I was able to wean myself off her.
Good luck, chin up ,
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