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26-29,
anonymous
writes:ok cupid heres one for you, im in love with my best friend (its a boy btw) but i dont want to be at all its just weird when we're together but we both try to stop it but nothing seems to work and its not exactly like we an avoid each other either because we sit with eachother in form so that just makes the situation worse, we've tryed talkin about it but we always end up in a really awkward an its just ruinin out friendship which is horrible because we were so close and we know everything about eachother please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2010): i am 14 and i have the same problem but i told the boy i liked him and he was a real jerk about it. i would wait until u r sure he is mature enough to handle it, and by that time u might have met the most amazing guy and just want to be best friends with this boy
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reader, JippySad  +, writes (9 December 2010):
 Take it easy. Be balanced. Let your love for him be a mixture of friendship and sexual attraction. You both were children and are now growing into adulthood. Respect the new feelings, also when they are confusing for now. Your intimacy with him in the past, has allowed your heart to be open for him. In love that is the door which opens to a relationship. Yet, as adults this openness may get confused with sexual desire, which may or may not be appropriate. He is probably going through some internal changes too. As you ripen into adulthood, with its new dimension of sexuality and the implicit future parenthood, deep in the unconsciousness working, you naturally go through complex psychological changes. Take it easy, visit friends and share your feelings. Be natural and love.
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