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writes:My girlfreind had our baby 2 years ago and since then sex has been terrible , she use's all sort of excuses and when we do have sex she wants it over quick as possible. She says its because she feels her body is not nice looking anymore . What can I do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (7 June 2010):
You've got to go right back to square one, as if you're dating her. Don't worry about the sex for now, and just focus on making her feel like she's special as a woman and not just a mother. Go out on dates, get her little but meaningful presents and spoil her a bit. I've yet to meet a woman who believes her boyfriend when he tells her she's beautiful. But I've met a lot of woman who come around to it when they're shown it. So show her and spoil her a bit. It'll take time, but if you show her she's number 1 in your life, she'll start to open up a bit more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2010): You need to tell her how beautiful she still is and make her feel really special. Set up a romantic night for just the two of--pamper her, make dinner, buy her something nice, etc. Make sure she knows how special she is to you. A lot of women go through a self-conscious phase after babies--some never get out. She needs your help!
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