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writes: I still have feelings for an ex-boyfriend I was with 5 years ago. After the breakup, we have kept in contact and became closer than we were when together. He is now my best friend who knows everything. He has a girlfriend, in which he says very little about. His excuse for not speaking about her is that he doesn't want to hurt my feelings. He knows that I love him but thinks just as a friend and doesn't know my true feelings for him. I don't want to confess my feelings and lose our friendship completely. Does anyone have suggestions on what I should do?
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reader, Viper  +, writes (11 November 2005):
 Hmm.. hard, who actually broke up with who?
If it was him that broke up with you I'd try and find someone else as he seems to only want you as a friend.
If you broke up with him I suggest that you tell him about your feelings, but try not to shock him, try to bring it up while your having fun as friends, it is a 50/50 chance which is only up to you if you want to take it.
If it was a mutual breakup then its just the same advice for if you broke with him but it may be more easier to tell him, suggesting that you should have another go at what you had.
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