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male
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36-40,
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writes:I'm married. Have been for six months. I wanted to call it off a few months before but thought it was just cold feet and that I'd get over it. Also at that time i began an emotional relationship with someone else. Nothing sexual, in fact neither of us admitted feelings up until a couple months ago.I told my wife that I had not enjoyed being married to her and that I was considering leaving. My wife is a wonderful person, deserving of a better situation and someone who actually will take care of her. I just want to stop feeling guilt all the time. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2009): yes plse end it before any more hurt is caused. the devastation of betrayal takes years (sometimes never) to get over so better you leave your wife now and move on to this other woman than to let your wife think you still love her. she will survive and move on.
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reader, kaylagal +, writes (5 June 2009):
 You should get a divorce. You have already told her it's not working and you want out, so just sit her down and tell you guys should start the divorce proceedings. You sound like an honest guy and you're trying to do with right thing, even for your wife too. You didn't mention kids, so I hope you don't have any.
Also if you want out, then make sure you stop having sex with her, if you must, then definitely use protection. Not to judge your wife but sometimes when a woman sees her man is slipping away she will get pregnant to force you to stay.
You're still young, and I'm sure your wife is too. She will find someone who will love her the way she deserves.
I say the sooner you start the better. Good luck.
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