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writes: I have been going out with my boyfriend Ben for 14 months now. I am only 15 and I have fallen out of love with him due to the way he treats me. I know I do not treat him as well as Icould but he has hit me a few times. I have stuck by him through all the problems he has had and I'm not sure I can cope with this any more. Shall I end the 14 month relationship or keep trying to make it work? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2005): You need to get out of this relationship and do it fast, don't allow yourself to be used as someones punch bag. I talk from experience when I say it won't get better. You deserve better than this. Move on you will find someone who will treat you as you should be treated, with love and respect.
A reader, Kiv, writes (11 February 2005): 14 months is a long relationship for someone your age, but weigh it against your future decades of happiness, or misery?This guy has hit you. If you stay with him, he will hurt you. I'm mean more than physically, he will truly hurt you in ways that don't heal.Please, PLEASE break up with him. Take a little time away from guys and re-center yourself. Keep your dignity and your self respect and never let a "guy" take that from you.I can't promise the next guy you meet will be the love your life. I can almost promise he won't be. But, you KNOW this guy isn't. So, why stay with him? You have a small investment in the relationship, and you have many years ahead of you. Move on. If not for yourself, do it for the people you love and who love you back, the one's who's heart it would break to see you unhappy. Do it for Mr. Right. If he meets you, and falls head over heels in love with you at first sight and would die for you in an instant, only to find that you're permanently bound in a relationship of not-so-happiness. Congragulations, you just broke Mr. Right's heart. That sucks.If not for them, do it for me. I'm just a guy who has a 6 yr old daughter that means the world to him, and would charge into a burning building to protect my daughter from what you already described. Please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2005): Get out of this relationship now, no one deserves to be hit. You will meet someone one day who will respect you and love you for who you are. You think you're treating him badly but don't blame yourself, its your way of saving your self respect.
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