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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I need some advise as I am getting mixed signals and not sure what to do. I met this girl on a dating website and we started talking and got on well and have lots in common. We met up once for a quick coffee and really hot it of we chatted for ages went shopping and went for another coffee, it was lovely, she txt me saying she would like to see me again and its nice we got on so well...We txted loads for a few days and she asked if she could see me on the weekend, so I suggested we go for a walk somewhere and have a nice evening meal which she agreed to. We txt the day before and said see you tomorrow. On the day i txt her saying looking forward to seeing you later, no reply and an hour before we agreed to meet she txt me saying sorry i havnt txt today i have had a busy day are free tomorrow? So i replied asking what she was busy doing and yes im free.. This is where it gets weird no reply until the following day just asking how i am and general chit chat..I asked her again what she was busy doing and no answer. So now Im thinking she is not intrested but she keeps txting me stuff like "Hey hunni, hey babe how are you?" What does this mean does she like me? What do I do I really like this girl, please help.....
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 February 2013):
 well that was a lousy thing to do... break a date at the last minute...
my first thought was not good... that someone or something "better" came along and now she's keeping you in the background for backup in case that does not work out...
if you really like her and she's "friend zoned" you... don't stick around and be sloppy seconds...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2013): It's maybe not something she wants to discuss with someone she has only met once? She's entitled to some privacy, so I wouldn't ask her again. If you do she might start thinking you are a clingy or controlling type who wouldn't let her breathe if you were in a relationship together. For now just focus on being friendly and see if she brings up another date. The fact she is still texting is a good sign, don't ruin it by coming on too strong.
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