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writes: I'm 14 and all the lads in my school are not boyfriend material. I'm looking for a boyfriend and don't go to any clubs. Where can I meet some nice guys other than school? thanks x x Reply to this Question
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (25 August 2006):
 When I was younger me and my girl mates would go to the local swimming bars and meet boys from other schools, there are always boys of the same age group there. Also go down the arcades because there are always boys in there. But be careful and do not go for anyone older because they will try and take advantage of you. I wish you luck hunny
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reader, dr doom +, writes (24 August 2006):
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reader, layla +, writes (24 August 2006):
 well when your 14 you think your looking for a boy who can stand by you and never let you go type of thing. This is what happends in a serious relationship. I think that you should wait untill you finished sckool and also boys that are 14 are mainly looking for a fling. or even just to prove that they have a girlfriend.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (24 August 2006):
 I hate to say this, but you don't need to be worrying about boys at 14! The reason the boys are not boyfriend material is because they're still kids, just like you should be! Have fun with your mates for now, you have the rest of your life for guys to torment you and cause you trauma!
I know this may sound patronising but, don't worry, I'm not much older than you. I just hate it when I see girls wasting their lives on guys that just aren't worth their time. I understand you think they're childish, girls grow up much faster than boys, but maybe that's a bad thing. Boys can be childish for a long time after school too, it doesn't necessarily end there, believe me!
You need to think about what you really want from life. Is it to be chasing guys forever? Wondering whether you're missing out? Let me tell you, honey, you're not missing out. There's really nothing to miss out on at your age but fun and games and enjoying being young.
You have the rest of your life to be worrying about guys so just enjoy this time, you will regret wasting it if spend it with a boyfriend that ends up being a loser. Good luck
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