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writes:ok i was just wondering.... i want to get into more domination like stuff with my boyfriend we both like being aggressive in bed and we need/ want to spice it up a little bit... i was wondering if anyone had any suggestions? fun toys costumes?... thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, aman +, writes (12 February 2009):
Well domination is all about one person controlling the other. So the dominant one has to control the other, and tell them what to do. The submissive one might either obey their 'master' or try to resist/disobey. If the submissive one disobeys then the master should punish them in some way.The dominant one might assert his/her authority over the other by:- Stern commands... "Suck my penis. Do as I say!"- Name calling... "Lick it like the s__t you are."- Forbidding something... "You're not allowed to touch yourself until you've earned it."- Make them beg (after forbidding)... "Do you want me to let you touch yourself? Beg for it."- Self Rewards (after forbidding and they do what you want, but never give them everything they want)... "Okay, you can touch yourself, but you can only do it while touching me."- Your Rewards... "Suck me until I am happy and I'll eat you out."- Spanking (tell them why they deserve it while you're doing it.)My examples are written from the male-dominant perspective, but you can easily apply them the other way around. If it is female-dominant the names-calling should be effeminate, like call him a pussy or a little girl (though make sure that's a turn on for him).The handcuffs can be used with the above examples too... like the submissive person gets handcuffed and has to do what the dominant person wants to earn their freedom... or the dominant person can fuck them while they can't do anything to resist.Be creative and have fun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok what could we do ? i have no idea how ... i guess i was wondering if someone could be specific i dont know what im doing really
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reader, aman +, writes (11 February 2009):
Buy a pair of handcuffs.
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