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Does this show intense attraction or is it just an "in the moment" thing?

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Question - (25 December 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 26 December 2010)
A age 30-35, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend isn't someone I was initially attracted to..he's handsome in his own way but its something that grows on a person, because I didn't think I'd end up with him. When we used to kiss more than a year ago I would get these monster butterflies and tingly sensations everywhere. Nowadays we kiss less but I've.noticed that when we do that same sensation comes back...this very intense turn on. Does this show attraction? Because when we are hanging out normally like friends I don't feel like jumping on him or anything. but then again, I'm not the most sexually driven person in the world.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010):

Haha cute. Yes, def attraction here. I think when you were friends you didnt get to know him deeply and now that you do you have new feelings for him and therefore have become sexually attracted to him in a way. Have fun :)

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A female reader, Abella United States +, writes (26 December 2010):

Abella agony auntyes, absolute giveaway sign is the butterflies feeling, that there is chemistry between the two of you. Enjoy!

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A female reader, courtney24 United States +, writes (26 December 2010):

courtney24 agony aunti would say that definately shows that you have a deep connection with him. and it seems that his looks seem to keep you from fully giving yourself to him.

Are you afraid of what others will think? if you are, dont! you could have something very special, and if he is a good guy - men like that are hard to find! hold on to him sister and be proud!

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A female reader, enisalynnjo Italy +, writes (25 December 2010):

I notice w/ my bf when I'm more attracted I get butterflies when I kiss him or even w/ him . so u may b getting more attraction towards him , but I also get butterflies when I'm extremely turned on . not orgasms tho !

good luck girl 33

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