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male
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51-59,
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writes:has this happened to you??? on several occasions my wife and l have had fantastic morning sex before l go to work. i mean fantastic sex and not just a quickie. my wife always climax's during intercourse. on several times this has happened she has ended up going back to sleep. on waking up an hour or 2 later she has decided to get her vibrator out and have a big play(i'm talking 1 hour or more). getting herself off big time. the sheets are even stained from her cumming so much. the idea of her playing really turns me on, but it also makes me feel as if l have or did not satisfy her enough to make her content. to me it makes me feel rejected in a way. it also then bugs me heaps because that night she is not interested in making love again as she is really sexually content.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): this is a very normal thing for women to do. dont worry she just wants a little extra
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2009): She likes having sex. I bet she thinks of you when masturbating. I know after I'm with my man I sometimes go home and get off some more. I have never done it for an hour, but I get bored with it pretty fast. Don't worry I'm sure she just likes it a lot.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (12 October 2009):
 No, I do not think this scenario ever occurred in my relationships, but I wouldn't know. In any case, my advice would be not to worry. Her extracurricular activity may simply be residual arousal triggered by being with you. No harm there, if such be the case. However, if not already major to your technique, you might consider offering her more oral stimulation to provide multiple orgasms prior to, and or included with intercourse. It certainly seems that you turn the lady on, so why be concerned?
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reader, natnatxxx  +, writes (12 October 2009):
 Its a hard question to answer. Men masturbate, freely and frequently. but when women do it during a relationship, they're not so happy.My boyfriend asked me to do masturbate for him, and when i did he went in a mood saying he was "out of the job" and "not up to my standards". So i was the like "what the hell? you wanted me to!"Women have sexual needs to, and sometimes are abit greedy and want a bit more just after sex. Speak to her about it, tell her masturbating is upsetting you and killing the sex life. Try and figure out a way you can do both be happy. Come to a compromise on when she uses her vibrator or what times of the day you have sex? She's allowed to pleasure herself just as men are. But your husband and wife, you should be able to talk about these things together. x
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