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anonymous
writes:Need help determining if my ex wants me back. We have been broken up for 3 yrs but still interact.we talk for at least 2 hrs a day, sometimes more. He calls me every morning and at night too. We see each other intimately once a week and he comes to have lunch with me once a week. His daughter comes to spend the weekend with my daughter and me sometimes and he buys us things we need with asking.we were friend before starting a relationship, and have been off and on for 13 yrs. We broke up because I had a baby by another guy while we were together. He had a baby first though. When I found out I started to cheat cause I needed a distraction. ( Baby mama was acting crazy). Found out that he is dating someone cause she called my phone 1 day. If he didn't still love me would he stay in contact so much. He told me that he met this girl while we were apart. Says his feelings for me have resurfaced and he doesn't know what he wants to do. He says everytime he want to talk to me about marriage etc. I do something to mess it up. What do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2009): I think he wants the best of both worlds. How do you know he isnt saying things within the samelines to the other woman? I think possibly he is one of those men who need comfort from their women. To tell you you mess it up eerytime he wants to ask you to marry him, that's b_llsh___t, sorry,so he hasnt really done it until now because of you? maybe he doesnt have a spine? What if you give him an ultimatum, that would help hima a lot to decide and pull up his socks either way..
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