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Does she love me or am I just a friend?

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Question - (22 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2009)
A male Mauritius age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Well I like a girl in my own office. I have already proclaimed my love to her once, she rejected it. Then afterwards we didn't even talk to each other till new year when the dead lock was broken. since that day on we began for talking for hours on phones and sending sms on. While sendin sms, she told me that she likes me 2 while I never said that I like her. Then another day she sends a sms saying that u r someone very nice, i like very much. One day I sent a msg saying that u r close to my heart and special. She sent me a msg at 5am asking me why is she close to my heart and special. So friends , all I am asking you is the girl in love with me or she just likes me as a friend, coz me Im truy in love with her.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009):

I hate to say this, but I don't know how you can say you are truly in love with a girl that you have never been in a real relationship with.....obviously she must be pretty and you enjoy the chase.

Don't sit there like a lump, walk over and ask her out on a proper date and go from there.....she is not going to profess her love for a guy who hasn't proven his.

Don't come on too strong though and shower her with gifts and call her three times a day....take things slow and plan fun things to do together. Women love a guy with a plan. Good Luck

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A female reader, pastfirst United States +, writes (22 January 2009):

pastfirst agony auntYou're so busy writing SMS messages, so write her a message asking if she'd like to go out with you.

You've got nothing to lose. If she likes you she'll accept, and if not, she'll refuse.

Take it from there.

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