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writes:Im going to try my best and keep this short. I have been hanging out with this girl for about 2 months and recently stopped seeing her because I knew I liked her a lot and it hurt to see her kiss another guy. but after not talking to her for 2 weeks and ignoring some of her texts I decided I wanted to see her again. 3 days ago we went to a party together and I was there to protect her. She is amazingly beautiful so I love hanging out with her and she has a great personality. I go upstairs to check on her friend who was just sitting on the couch watching a movie with some guys and she even said your like a body guard. and that she liked that. That made me feel good. The girl I like also said that I am like a wall so I sorta like all the compliments because I do work out pretty hard. anyway later that night people were kinda getting a little to touchy with her and it was bothering me but I couldn't tell if she liked it. I saw one of the guys there spank her when she was dancing and she didn't do anything about it. this made me feel like shit again so I went upstairs again and started talking to her friend. Since I had to make sure the girl I liked was alright I went back downstairs. She said at the end of the party when she lost something how worried she was and all this stuff. I went up to her and have her a hug she put her head on the chest and I think was crying and said I love you. Then yesterday we hung out and in front of her friend she said your my bestie (best friend) and the best neighbor in the world love yah. I was like aww your so sweet. she knows I like her but after hearing her say I love you I really wanted to say I love you too. I am not afraid of saying it because I know I love her but I am afraid she doesn't mean it when she says it. I don't want to freak her out if i say it or make her uncomfortable. she went out of town and will be for the next little while and Im going to miss her so much not because I won't see her for a while but that even know we haven't hung out for a longer time than she will be away that was before she said I love you and this time even if I wanted to see her I can't. my questions are... do you think next time she says i love you should i say it back, im planning on giving her space when she is away because she should have fun. how do you think I can get her to eventually date me, she said she broke up with her boyfriend a little while ago but they still talk all the time and he texts me asking me to protect her even know I would anyway. I am afraid that she knows so many guys that she will only be a friend with hooking up benefits and thats fine because Im not really looking for sex but I am looking for a girl who will love me and actually mean it.what do you guys/girls think. does it sound like she loves me? thanks for the help
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reader, justfriends +, writes (17 March 2011):
justfriends is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you so much. I will wait a little longer to text her, she has been gone 3 days. but I absolutely would love to be her boyfriend and Im not interested in getting in her pants, I just want to have someone who will want me to put my arm around them and give a hug to and brag about that I have the best girlfriend in the world to everyone :)
Im going to wait until she gets back to bring up the love thing but maybe tomorrow I will text her just saying hey or something.
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reader, aussie32tigerr +, writes (17 March 2011):
 Wow. Seems like your in a pickle... In my opinion, I think you should text her and try to have a conversation with her. Make it casual and as normal as possible. Get to know her more than you already do.
When you do talk to her, try to CASUALLY bring up the conversation of when she said she loved you. Remind her of that. Tell her that you were confused on which love she ment. Tell her that you love her, like REALLY love her, and not just as friends love. Say that you dont want to get in her pants, but you actually care about her and you want to be her boyfriend (if thats what you wanna be?)
While she is on her vacation, only text her at a minimum, and if she answers, good on ya!! But if she dosent, then there is always tomorrow. She might not answer right away, but she just might. Say something like "good morning beautiful" when you think she might be awake. Or "just thought I would say hey, because I was thinking about you. (: ".
Hope I helped mate!
xoxo best of wishes
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