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anonymous
writes:I've been with my bf for around 9 month and everything is good with us.I was lay in bed with him the other day and we was talking about what turns us on and gets us going. So I told him everything he already knows like kissing my neck, nibbling my ear, touching my boobs and when he's got his body against me and I can feel he's hard. So I asked what got him going and he said he doesn't know. So I said well surely there's something and he said there isn't. Is it possible that nothing can turn him on? Because he gets hard so I got slightly confused. x
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reader, happy140  +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Oh, I think he knows. In his defense how does he tell you he likes to watch you give head or masturbate or any other out of the ordinary sexual activity if he thinks you will find it offensive. He needs to open up and you need to let him know that nothings sick to you but there are things you just do not want to do. If he gets as hard as you say it IS from contact and what he is thinking. Dig, do something sexual, and ask him if he likes it or if there is ANYTHING you can do for him. Tell him your fantasies, try and get him to open up-there is something he has liked for years but is afraid to ask.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): Simply it does, because his body is reacting to you. But he doesn't know how to explain it, and doesn't want to sound like a "softy". Or he just doesn't know, and doesn't want to sound like he hasn't been around. It's better if he hasn't really, since you're both young.
Just be safe, and do what you do, because he's enjoying it by the sounds of it. Don't do what you don't want to do, just to make him happy!
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