Does my choir director like me?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm really unsure if my choral director has feelings for me. I've known him for a number of years and I feel like he pays particular attention to me. My friend and I both went for breathing coaching a few years back. He told her she was doing fine but told me to keep coming back, even though she was worse off than I was. He also mentioned that my breathing coachings were enjoyable. And when we did group massage in warm ups, he would always go in bewtween me and the person next to me so that he could give me a back rub. The next semester, he hired me as his student assistant. I was the only one he asked. One day, as I was walking with him to his office we were talking and we stopped in the middle of the hallway and just kind of looked at each other. It wasn't for very long but it felt like forever. And then we both snapped out of it and started walking and talking again. He really listens to me because he remembers everything I tell him. He remembers things I told him from years ago. I was the only one of his assistants to have ever gotten any gifts from him. I had gotten a Christmas gift and a graduation gift. And even at graduation he gave a hug and kiss on the cheek and asked me to come back to the chamber choir as a community member. At the end of every semester he always gives me a huge hug and asks me to come back. I'm the only one in the group that he asks to come back. Does he like me or what?

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