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Does he think I'm just an easy lay or does he really like me?

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Question - (13 December 2006) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 December 2006)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i met a guy about five weeks ago on a night out, and we got on really well. he lives in another city so we emailed each other for a week, and then arranged to meet up at his the next weekend. even though i didn't really fancy him, we had a brilliant night and ended up sleeping together. he seemed to really like me, even though i wasn't too into him. i was happy thinking it was a just one-night stand.

however, we kept emailing for the next couple of weeks, and i ended up going back to see him, and sleeping with him again. except this time, i had actually begun to really really like him!

two weeks on, i cannot stop thinking about this guy, and he has told me he likes me. but i have had my heart broken by a man in the past, and i am terrified of this happening again.

also, he has a hectic timetable and seems to have a lot of female friends, and i've noticed he is very flirty with them, which makes me wonder if he is genuine about me. Does he think i'm just an easy lay or does he like me? and should i carry on seeing him if i run the risk of being hurt?

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A male reader, Thekris1234 will help u United Kingdom +, writes (14 December 2006):

If you feel as though you are going to be hurt then don't carry on. No one is worth having your heart broken. He sounds as if he likes all the girls he is around and so maybe you should try talking to him more. If you meet up again refuse to sleep with him and see what his reation is. If he gets into a big modd then you know that all he wantsfrom you is you sex but if he says thats ok I love you whatever you say then carry on with him.

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