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writes: Hi need some people's views on this one.Ok where to start off, I'm 17 and went to a concert last week. I instantly hit it off with one of the guys in the band , I shall call him A. A and I got talking all night and had some really good converstation. When his band was onstage, I stood right in front of him, and he winked and me a few times. After they had come off stage He got cornered by this other girl who was talking to him so i went off to talk to another memeber of his band ( I'll call him C) C was edging closer towards me as we spoke and it seemed like he was going to kiss me. A then came over and took me over to the bar to buy me a drink, whilst at the bar he kissed me. We spent the rest of the night making out. Nearer the end of the evening another memeber of the band (Call him B). B pulled me to him and was cudling me whilst groping my bum. He pulled me over to the backstage area and Band member A showed up and kissed me. to this band member B said "I was just about to do that". He asked me to help him out to the van with some stuff obviously to get me on my own however this girl who followed him around all evening helped him before i could. He then seemed to give up on me. Two days later I went a video shoot with them. Band Member B accused me of fancying A. He then proceeded to ask me if i had a b/f to which i replied no and asked him the same question to which he replied yes two of them. He then told me that A really liked me and C agreed with him that the whole way home he didnt stop talking about me. A did stare at me whilst he was onstage later but didnt kiss me at all and hardly spoke to me. My friend put this down to it was in the middle of the day , he was busy and there was loads of people there. I have emailed him since and he seems to play things quite cool with just an "x" at the bottom of it and we havent spoke about anything that has gone on. I'm going to see them again on tuesday, just need to know if anyone thinks he does like me or if they think B is lying and if so why he's lying. I'm really confused and dont want to make a fool out myself. Reply to this Question
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (14 September 2006):
 This whole thing, after reading, seems as if they are treating you like a common groupie. You kiss one, one fondles you and the other attempts to.... Personally, I wouldn't date you because you seem like you can't make up your mind. I feel like you are being used and they are probably drawing straws to find out who gets a shot at you and it seems that "A" won.
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reader, sarah y +, writes (14 September 2006):
Rather than listening to B or C why not ask A straight out if he has any feelings towards.It sounds like he does like you but as you say maybe playing it cool.Tell him how you feel and that you`ll understand if just wants to take it slowly or is just happy being friends.....Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2006): i am really sorry to have this opinion babe but i dont think you should waste your time find someone that wont mess you about which it sounds like he is doing your obviously an attractive girl if they all took a shine to you if i was in your shoes i would move on
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2006): These guys sound like their treating you like a piece of meat. they obviously get this attention alot and so see you as no exception. My advice to you would be to find a guy who isnt in a band and will treat you with respect. if this guy was so interested he could have shown it better. But i could be wrong, see how he acts when you go to the next concert, then you will know whether he's worth it. take care!
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